This is how you counter it. You simply reply:
"What Orwellian rubbish! I feel like I'm listening to an interrogator from the novel 1984! Are you listening to yourself? You are making a fool of yourself, not me. I don't have to sit here and listen to this stupid, deceitful, reasoning. Good bye!"
Then you get up from the meeting and take your leave. Don't dignify such stupid reasoning. Let them know in no uncertain terms that such reasoning is stupid and will not be tolerated in any way by you. You might even say something like:
"What! What did I just hear you say? Am I hearing right? Do you mind repeating that? . . . My God! you actually said that! Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined hearing such a foolishly disingenuous - one might even say facetious - argument coming from the mouth of an elder in Jehovah's organization! Are you joking or are you that desperate?"